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Apr 03 2010

That “I Spy” Guy – Robert Culp

This article was originally published on my other website at JustOneOpinion.com on March 28, 2010. I wanted to share this story of my family’s brief encounter with Mr. Culp back in 1968.

Actor Robert Culp died of a heart attack outside his home in Los Angeles last week.

Culp was best known for co-starring with Bill Cosby in the ground-breaking television series “I Spy” during the 1960s, Culp was 79 years old at the time of his passing on March 24.

“I Spy” was a groundbreaking first for TV, teaming Culp and Cosby as two buddies that traveled the world as spies – but posing as tournament tennis competitors. The first of many TV and movie interracial pairings, such as “Miami Vice” and many cops and robbers “buddy movies,” “I Spy” began during a period when racial equality was still just a dream and real racial and sexual diversity on TV was still at least fifteen years away. Black faces on TV were still very much a rarity in the mid to late 1960s.

In later years, Culp played presidents, cops, senators, devious businessmen, occasional villains, and more recently, a repeating role as Ray Romano’s father-in-law in the sitcom “Everybody Loves Raymond.”

“I Spy” came along when fictional secret agents were very popular on both big and small screens, riding on the success of the James Bond movies starring Sean Connery and TV’s “Secret Agent,” Patrick McGoohan. Culp and Cosby played their roles with humor and occasional horseplay, rather than the brutality and violence that were central to the themes of their competitors.

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Mar 27 2008

Updated Memorial Pages

Jay and John Hoyle in the 1980sAt the suggestion of my brother Denny, I have updated our father’s memorial pages that are linked to this website. 

Within just a few weeks it will be two years since his passing, yet it seems like it was just recently that I saw him last.  So many of the good memories from my youth involve my father.  Although he could be a heavy-handed disciplinarian (both literally and figuratively) at times, I never doubted that he loved me and really wanted me to grow up to be a responsible adult and do well. 

When it involved sports, Dad was not only a coach to my brother and me, but also a great playmate.  He loved to get out and mix it up a little, wrestling and boxing with us, tossing a football, or grabbing a baseball glove and playing catch with us for hours in the front yard of our home in Riverside, California.  He was still playing catch with us when we were adults and had kids of our own and he was well into his fifties.

I prefer to think of my father in that way – looking back on the days of my youth.  In later Alton J Hoyleyears our relationship became more strained and distant, not only in miles, but also in other ways.  Even though I did not agree with some of his beliefs, nor he with mine, I know he was just as sincere in his position as I was.  Through all of that, I always loved him and was sure he felt the same way about me.

Sometimes there is a price that must be paid and tears to be shed as we go our separate ways and move away from our parents.  Although they are both gone now, I will always have my wonderful memories of Dad and Mom and the great life we all had as kids.

The memorial pages have an improved layout, are printer friendly, and there is a new picture of Dad in his seventies at the end of the text.  I’ve corrected some spelling errors and weak grammar in an attempt to make the text flow smoother. Click on the link in the side panel to check it out. 

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Feb 19 2008

A few updates for those who care – and “O” Obama!

Well we’ve reached mid-February and everything is just rosy – except for the roses, of course.  Life is good, the weather here in Salem is just beautiful, and I’ve lost almost 17 pounds over the past 6 weeks.

I forgot to mention the last time around that I updated the Lonnie Harvey memorial page and added another story.  I’ve got a couple more to share, but I will write them later this Spring.  The latest one tells about Lonnie and I going to the old Swing Auditorium in San Bernardino and attending an unforgettable concert.

I don’t usually publish my political opinions on this site, but I will bend the rules a bit and share a few thoughts about the current political primaries and the politicians who are involved.

If you are like me, you’re pretty much fed up with Bush and his gang.  They’ve managed to destroy the housing market, stop meaningful stem cell research, and have wrapped us into a war that few of us really want.  We watch as our bridges collapse, health care becomes unmanageable, the Mexican border remains unprotected, and Bush political scandals grow exponentially each week.

You might also be frustrated with the Democrats.  They won the last Congressional elections by a pretty good margin and clearly had voter support to institute change and stand up to Bush.  But they’ve just rolled over and played like Bush’s lap dogs.

Although I admire McCain and his proven patriotism, he clearly is espousing another four years of Bushism.  Another two years of war in Iraq would be unacceptable, but McCain tells us right up front that we might be in there for another 100 years. 

McCain refers to our presence in Germany, Japan, and Korea as examples of our forces remaining in place 50 years after the wars were over.  But he misses the primary differences between the situations:  Germany and Korea both want us there and being there provides us with critical bases on both sides of the old Soviet Union. 

Iraqis, on the other hand, do not want us there and our being there does not offer us any strategic advantage that we do not already have.  We have bases in Saudi Arabia and Kuwait, and a naval fleet in the Persian Gulf.  Anyone attacking us from that part of the world would be toast in a matter of hours as things exist now.

So my vote will likely go Democratic this year.  Hillary has her charm and is very smart, and like Margaret Thatcher, the British Prime Minister of the 1980s and 90s, I think she would be a tough and effective leader.  But even discounting ex-Prez Bill Clinton, Hillary carries a lot of baggage of her own.  People who have worked for her don’t seem to like her and her public face is often the exact opposite of her private personality.  She’d get my vote if it is between her and McCain, but I am hoping I have another choice in November.

Barak Obama clearly would bring a new vision and new blood to the White House.  What he might lack in experience he clearly makes up for in charisma.  In fact, he has charisma with a capital “C.”  He does not have the baggage Hillary has, and is clearly building support from all segments of the population.

It is clear that the Southern white evangelicals will likely vote against Obama simply because they still believe in the old Biblical myth of the “curse of Ham.”  That still limits the modern credibility of the Mormons. Even though a high percentage of African-Americans are members of the Baptist Church, the fact is that the Southern Baptist Church was formed by supporters of slavery around the time of the Civil War, breaking away from the Methodists and “northern” Baptists because of their growing opposition to slavery.  Unfortunately, the  attitudes that created that old denominational split that fed the Klu Klux Klan and segregation for over a century, still exist to some degree in this country, especially the South.  Nothing Obama could do or say will ever change the minds of that category of voters.  They will likely support Huckabee or McCain or simply sit out the election.

The rest of the voting population, however, is clearly beginning to accept Obama as a viable candidate and a popular choice for real change.

In spite of the usual campaign rhetoric, Obama is clearly a breath of fresh air in the political arena.  I say give the kid a chance.  If he screws up, then toss his ass out in four years like we did Jimmy Carter. 

I personally am hoping that Obama gets his chance to show us his stuff.  I’m not sure why anyone would want to be President considering the workload and personal danger, but if Obama wants the opportunity, I say let him have a go.  I’m sure Hillary will still be waiting in the wings for her next chance, so maybe she would be a decent replacement if Obama fails to live up to the hype.

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Oct 18 2007

Lonnie Harvey – Rest in peace, Brother…

One of my closest childhood friends passed away on September 1, 2007.  I found out about the passing of Lonnie Harvey, age 63, of Riverside, CA on the day of his funeral.

I’ve written not a biography, but a few stories about my life growing up with Lonnie.  These are all true stories about things we experienced together.  There were so many more tales to tell, but I simply ran out of time before I had to leave for an extended trip.

The bio is long and the format is a little messed up.  I’ll fix it up and add more photos and a brief video clip when I get back to my office in November.

In the meantime, read what is essentially a draft and feel free to comment on it.  If anyone has photos of Lonnie that they can scan and send to me, I would be eternally grateful.

Go to the page link entitled “Lonnie and Me” to read the story.

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